How to Use Amiable or Amicable?

First published on March 31, 2024 by Dalia Y.|Last revised on October 20, 2024

Amiable and amicable are adjectives that convey friendly behaviour; the former describes people, the latter applies more to circumstances or occurrences.

How to Use Amiable or Amicable?

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Are amiable and amicable the same?

Amiable and amicable are both adjectives (i.e., describing words), that have to do with pleasant or friendly feelings. The difference conerns the correct contexts in which we use these words:

Amiable describes someone as friendly, engaging, or sociable. It can also describe something that pleases (or has a pleasing affect/quality).

Amicable, by contrast, tends to apply more to situations, when something is, “done or achieved in a polite or friendly way and without arguing”; e.g., “an amicable agreement“. The distinction between them is clearer in practice.

Everyone knew him as an amiable fellow.

They managed to maintain amicable relations even after a messy divorce.

From its usage, you can see how “amicable” describes relations, situations, negotiations, or interactions; whereas “amiable” describes people, attitudes, and dispositions.

“Amiable” / “amicable”, used in sentences

Word choice: amiable/amicable Example sentences
amiable

He seemed an amiable young man.

So amiable was the mood of the meeting that a decision was soon reached.

He was amiable and charming, and he had an ability to make people feel comfortable.

amicable

Despite their disagreement, they parted on amicable terms.

An amicable settlement was reached.

It was an amicable divorce.

Quotes from literature and the media

A classic Irish pub with amiable, be-paunched bartenders.

— New York Magazine, 2011

He..asked the mate, in an amiable tone of voice, if he had ‘any (ruddy) noospapers from Sydney’.

— L. Becke, Ebbing of Tide

That foreign eccentricity to which their nation is so amiable.

— W. D. Howells, Foregone Conclusion, 1875

Andy appeared to be amiable to the idea.

— D. L. Hart, Year of Rat, 2002

‘You'd think I ought to let Anne go to the moon if she took the notion, I've no doubt,’ was Marilla's amiable rejoinder.

— L. M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables, 1908

There was the amicable drink-meister who worked at the bar at Major-Roberts.

— E. Friedman, Then Again, 1999

It was her supreme happiness to receive amicable little signs of recognition from some of these superior beings.

— Century Magazine, 1909

The goal is to find an amicable solution that the parties to the conflict can live with.

— J. A. Arthur, Afr. Diaspora in U.S. & Europe, 2008

While not entirely amicable, the separation occurred without the children becoming entangled in marital conflict.

— M. M. Eno in D. H. Sprenkle, Divorce Therapy, 1985

Synonyms, nearby words & word forms

Synonyms for amiable

affable amicable engaging cordial friendly genial good-humoured charming

Synonyms for amicable

amiable civil cordial agreeable amenable courteous polite harmonious

Word origin (of amicable/amiable)

Early 15c., “pleasant,” from Late Latin amicabilis “friendly,” a word in Roman law, from Latin amicus “friend,” ultimately from amare “to love”.

Late 14c., “kindly, friendly,” also “worthy of love or admiration,” from Old French amiable “pleasant, kind; worthy to be loved” (12c.).

Worksheet: Amicable or amiable?

Question 1 of 5

The two companies reached an ______ agreement to end their partnership.



Everyone liked her because of her ______ personality.



Despite their differences, their conversation remained ______ and respectful.



He greeted everyone with an ______ smile, making people feel welcome.



After the dispute, they managed to settle matters in an ______ manner.





FAQs

Are amiable and amicable the same?
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Based on the post, they both relate to friendly feelings but differ in context. Amiable describes people or things that please, while amicable describes friendly actions or agreements.

When should I use amiable?
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Use “amiable” to describe people as friendly or sociable, or something that pleases. The post gives examples like “He seemed an amiable young man” or “So amiable was the mood…”.

When should I use amicable?
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Use “amicable” for things done or achieved in a friendly way without arguing, like agreements or relations. Examples from the post include “an amicable agreement” or “amicable relations”.

Can amiable describe an agreement?
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No, the post states this is incorrect. Amiable describes people, attitudes, or dispositions, not agreements. An agreement is described as ‘amicable’ if it’s reached in a friendly way.

Can amicable describe a person?
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No, the post indicates this is incorrect usage. “Amicable” describes agreements, relations, or interactions achieved without arguing, not individual people’s personalities.

Sources

  1. “Cordial, N., Adj., & Adv.” Oxford English Dictionary, Oxford UP, June 2025, https://doi.org/10.1093/OED/9146373010.

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